I really am trying to focus on improving the R, and I think that starts with me. This is the whole theory behind DB. One person can change a R. I've seen a lot of positive changes and that's good. We have our first MC today and I think we need a road map to get out of this mess.

At this point, I don't know what H is doing to a) acknowledge his part in this, b) let go of the anger, and c) work on the trust issues. He's got to put in the work and I hope the MC makes him see that.These are things that have to happen if we are to stay together.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page