Just ask the friend not to interfere. You don't have to tell him anything about what you're doing unless you really want to.
Let it be, continue planning your life.
What is in your plan so far?
What are your goals for this week?
Thank you labug. I dragged this friend in basically. He lives in the city I am right now, and when the bomb was dropped, I didn't know who to talk to as a friend. So I told him how I felt and what was going on. He was being very supportive in a neutral way (seems neutral to me). He was the one that told me H must be in a bad mental place right now, before I found DB book. So I think he understands something about how H feels about life. And I had a few emotion meltdowns, and he listened to me. So I think I dragged him into this, and I don't know if I could stop him from going at this point. But I will try, I think I need to tell him a little bit about how I don't think it's a good idea for him to go. Then, I will have to let it be. He has his own opinions, and he thinks he knows my H better than I do at some level. They grew up together basically.
I have a big exam coming up so I'm studying for it. After the exam, I plan to do a little traveling to visit my friends. My goal is to past the exam!
