I like your plan LS, and the 6 month evaluation sounds reasonable. As you noted, your wife really doesn't know what she wants right now, and she certainly doesn't truly know this other guy yet either. So yes, this will take her some time to figure out. Let it be her decision though, that way when she comes back you'll know it's because SHE believes you were the best choice.
Bust On, and be strong!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
