I posted to you and must have not hit submit.

Just ask the friend not to interfere. You don't have to tell him anything about what you're doing unless you really want to.

Let it be, continue planning your life.

What is in your plan so far?

What are your goals for this week?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss