You'll get through the holidays and it will be different and sad at times. No denying that.
Start planning now what you're going to do for the holidays. My suggestion would be to plan something that's different so it's not like you're replaying past holidays and H is conspicuously absent. Ask the lids what they might like to do.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
