"Never mind that I found an unpaid parking ticket from July that was now into triple fines...never mind that..."

that's right. focus on the good and the positive. register the negative but don't let it be your main focus. pay the ticket for your own benefit (lost money). don't bring it up now.

there must have been many reasons you fell in love with your H and many things about him you liked and loved. focus on them and accentuate the positive.

M:63
H:53
S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23
M:15
T:16

Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways."
H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12
12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing