Is she too close to this for me to tell her? I want to share and I have been giving her little DB pieces of advice. But I'm afraid she will come across my posts and somehow it will get back to OM and W.
Just tell her about the book, don't mention that you post on the forums. If she finds her way to the forums the chances have got to be really small that she would find your posts and figure out who's making them. There are so many different people and threads on here that it just seems unlikely she'd put it together unless you told her you post here.
