Update: Two weeks ago I contacted one of the therapist from this site and had a session. We came up with a plan of action and later that night i put it into play when my wife came over to pack up some of her items. The night went really well. She vented a lot of her work frustrations to me, we ate dinner, she had a few drinks, and believe it or not she was dancing in the kitchen to halloween songs. When she left that night She told me she had a lot of fun with me. She even suggested that we share a storage shed and wanted us to take our pets to the vet together. She made plans to come over this weekend to continue to pack. What is concerning to me now is that i havent heard from her since. Its been about two weeks with no word and she didnt show up this weekend to pack. Not even a message to say she wasnt showing up. I found out she went out of town with a girlfriend instead. So what do I make from all of this?