Dealing with the reality of separation

[Grocerykartman]

Just so I don't leave you hanging fuanacdc, I don't truly know.

But...

My observation with your post was that it seemed like as I read it further and further I was more or less left with many more of "what YOU feel are cons" than "what you feel are pros". Doesn't seem like you are too confident that this is a good idea.

I don't know that what you're worried about is really all THAT likely, but, for argument's sake, what if you're absolutely right? My previous question put another way is, does the positive of doing that outweigh the risk for YOU?

My inclination is to say that the DBing literature is supposed to be a secret between you and you. And that doesn't just apply to not sharing it with your WAW. That's with anyone close enough to the situation where you risk it coming to your wife's attention I would say.

I just wanted to simply pose a question back to you to see if you had any additional thoughts on the matter which the board could evaluate.

Anyone else, please chime in on this.