New to DB and Clearly Oblivious to My "Horrible" M

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I'm encouraged that you're going to explore the possibilities.

Be aware of what you may dealing with before you choose a hill to die on.

I had undiagnosed PPD. I knew something was wrong but didn't know what. I was in denial. It dealt a major blow to my marriage and my depression waxed and waned through the years, causing further damage.

And, here I am.

Having a good PPD therapist help you navigate this, if in fact that's what's going, is key.