Now Separated. Am I doing the right things?

[Arsene]

Sorry to hear about your job mate. That puts a dent in your plan to sort out your finance. At a point, you had found a second job where they wanted you to commit to full time work. Is that job still available? You might want to check it out. These guys liked you enough back then to offer you full time, they might be interested in having you again now.

About your job. I remember you saying you got on well with your boss and he supported you in your efforts. What is the reason you lost your job? if you don't mind telling. I know most of us down here can't really focus on work and our sitch does affect what we do. Do you think it has anything to do with that?

RE: Your wife's letter. She is being very business-like but still showing concern for your welfare. She is also being considerate re: your time with the kids. I don't see anything wrong with it mate. Remember, this is a marathon. She said she needed time and space. You are giving it to her and she is taking it. Hopefully she is using it well, but that is neither here nor there for us LBSs because we have to focus on how we use our own time. Speaking of which, what is going on with OW? How are you dealing with it?

BTW Rough. I don't mean to diminish the impact of you losing your job. I know it must be tough, especially these days. I'm with you mate and I know you'll be fine. Heck, you lost your job 2 weeks ago and you're already doing something else. Keep your head up mate!