Back to Square One?

[Wendylon]

Will that bring you closer together or pull you farther apart?

Yeah, I thought so too.

Thank you, FY, for that reminder.

Michele has a section in the book on figuring out the best time where our spouse would be most receptive to our request(s). Timing is everything.

I need to work on timing. I'm pbly missing some times when H would be more receptive than others.

We both know one thing for sure, when he's baiting you is most certainly not a good time! Continue to avoid being drawn into this at all costs... you can't win.

So true. Thank you again for spelling it out.

I read your post and Regretful's just before going out with H for supper. We actually had a nice time. It was light-hearted and enjoyable. I'm sure that I wouldn't have managed that without this board. Today could easily have deteriorated into an ugly fight. I even think he did see his cousin because he did have some anecdotes about her. Maybe I was being paranoid...

I feel that I came close to some major backsliding today but avoided it thanks to the people and principles here. Thank you very much, all of you.