Thank you! Anotherstander, sandi2 and nickb You guys are great. It really means a lot to me to have a little support in all this. And to keep me Patient, and on track.
I have been working on letting go, it seems as soon as I really decided to just let go and just do the LIsten and Validate, she has been in a better mood around me.
I have a question again though. So one of my 180's is to initiate conversation about how she is doing. But the book says to let her initiate, so I am not quite sure what advice to follow?
Me-41, W-41, S-9, Married 20, Separated 11-11, OM 10-12.
