He's Just Not That Into You

[hopefulinga]

Breakdown has some good points, LA. I understand how frustrating your H's behavior is. But focusing on it shows you are attaching again. I live with the king of H's that don't pull their weight. Would I like help around the house? Sure. Has the lack there of made me resentful? Recently, yes. But I'm not going to get mad about it.

It's hard to tell if you H is missing some of the things you would like him to do, like the list at the store, because he is depressed. I can tell you that if my H bought a pizza, he wouldn't consider what I wanted on it. In reality, my H would go out and get one.

Your H seems like he is on the fence. You may have to bite your lip a little bit more and see what happens in MC.