New to the forum, WAH 10/3/12

[PeteWyo]

I'm not sure if you are still checking this thread but I will add my 2 cents. Answer me this question, are you unsure if you want him back because he cheated on you or because it would be easier without him around. I'm not saying there java right answer and maybe it is a bit of both. I can't empathize with you but I understand how an injury like that could affect your R. You are obviously here because you or some part of you wants to save your M. And I can empathize with you a bit on feeling that you are responsible for taking care of him. I did that too much actually, to the point where I came across as controlling. That is another story though. I guess the real question is what you want. Either way taking some time to be the best person you can be while he figures out what he wants, can't be a better thing. And at the end, if you don't want him back, then you have that option, but you will be in a really good place for yourself. So as my favorite poster Denver told me, what's the rush?