Just something. Talked to my SIL and she told me that she doesn't like what my H is doing and she won't like him or the OW if we do get a D. She encourages me to get a D which I am not against much anymore. But I do have my opinion that I'd give this messed up R some more time. But I was glad to hear that she thinks my H is a loser for doing this. YAY. Not many mutual friends know about how we are now, and I'll keep it that way. I didn't really want the family to know about this at first, but I really had no one to talk to. But SIL didn't try to get into this so it's nice of her. H doesn't know she knows about us.
