Hello, Well, I don't want to completely ruin my chances either, so my first email has to be very friendly.
But you're right, I already have written another email, because I know she'll tell me to buzz off!
Here it is : Hi A, I understand and appreciate your concern, but we both know since the beginning that there’s no such thing as supervised visits by your parents, or only twice a week visits for Brucie and I.
In fact any form of separation will legally lead to at least 50% time with each one of us. I don’t have the feeling I had much concession when I tried to ask you to spend more time with you and Brucie.
Certainly there are compromises and changes to be made, and our child deserves all the effort the parents can make. I do not believe that separation is a solution to our problems. Nonetheless, I respect and love you enough to let you go if that is what you choose.
If you want to meet and discuss, let me know, Take good care, B.
Now, the last bit, about me being ok and freeing her if she wants to go, kinda makes me think : what if she does? I only want her to see that, in truth, losing half of the toddler is HER choice. (and she can reverse that anytime). I don't know if this is a good tactic here? Will that drive her away further?
I intend to send this email as a response to the first one tomorrow, so this one only probably tuesday or wednesday.
About the OM, it's not that I need to know, but, you know, that'd explain a lot of things... and I would stop wondering, night and day... should I ask or not?
Any advice, recommendations highly appreciated! I'm so lost, Thanks, B
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
