To me THAT is about authenticity and integrity. Using this time to reclaim your Self and identify what you want in a relationship. So that next time, whether w H or an Other, you put those stakes in those values and claim them for you.
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"