Now Separated. Am I doing the right things?

[Am I Too Late]

I just spent the past 2 days reading the 46 page previous thread completely through and i mainly wanted to follow a sitch with an ongoing separation.

I feel like your priorities have fluctuated on occasion and when you were called out on them, you backtracked to say it was just fleeting thoughts.

So, have you had a change of heart towards R?

As stated by others, thats okay if you have, but you seemingly are not that attracted to or interested in this OW based on your description and characterization of her.

Is a fling worth abandoning any hopes you had of R?

No disrespect intended and i truly wish you peace with whatever decision you make.

I need to start a new thread too, but i was catching up on AT's, Arsenes and yours for the past several days when i had time.

Take care and good luck,

Ed