Great post Snodderly!

I struggle everyday with the whole concept of OW, some days more than others. It's been really eating at me lately that I don't know who it is. Because he continues to keep her a secret, I think maybe deep down he knows she's less quality than me. Who knows.

I have read so many times that the shine will eventually fade from OP, that they will reveal their true selves in time. She's been around for a good year, so I'm ready for her mask to come off ASAP!

Thanks again for all of your advice you give to everyone here.

Heather, hang in there girl! See if you can dig deep to give it some more time. Seems like the less you interact with him, the better.


Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."