The Lure of the Siren

[bustingout]

Hi Arsene,

I think you dod the right thing too. And I also understand the feeling of it feeling wrong as well. You are not alone in that :-)

What can I say except what Starsky said...this is counter-intuitive. Maybe when we feel that, we should actually give ourselves a pat on the back and think 'ok...I am DBing and I choose to DB, and this is what it is about'.

Trust the process as Cadet says.

(I realise I am only re-quoting the vets! But I believe it...hopefully i can DO it).

As for this:

All the same, I just got home and the car is still here which leads to believe she went home with OM. I know it happens and I expect it to happen but I'm always gutted when it does.

I know this feeling....whenever H leaves for the night after the kids sleep, goes to OW....the knife rips another cut in my gut. But we keep moving forward. We keep doing what we are learning and what we believe is the best we can do, and always strive to do better.

I hope you are okay Arsene. :-)

(((( )))))