Next step? Any ideas?

[labug]

Hi Starbag, (does that have a meaning?) I haven't read your thread before today and just read your first post on this new thread and these last few.

Your job isn't to sit and wait for him to do anything. Your job is to go out and GAL, really Get A Life, separate from him. He's moved on or so it seems, there is nothing you can do about that/ Will he change his mind? Who knows? What is certain is that you need to take care of yourself and move forward with your life as you see fit. I know this is so painful but it does get better.

What are you doing for yourself? I just skimmed your other thread and see a lot of writing about snooping and your H and OW but very little about you.

You're 25 and probably have a lot of interests. If not cultivate some, volunteer somewhere, that's a great way to get your mind off your troubles. Exercise, take a dance class, joing a book club there are any number of things you could do other than worry about what H will do.

I know DB says don't believe some percentage of what they say or do but I think it's realistic for the time being to believe his actions and words. That may change in the future but for now leave him to his path.

And you set out on yours.