The Lure of the Siren

[Just A Guy]

I think you did the right thing, Arsene. Remember, while much is written around here about "every situation is different" and "we all have to follow our gut," let's face it -- our GUT is often what got us into our marital messes and led us to this forum to begin with.

Much, MUCH of correct DBing is counter-intuitive, and won't feel right.
Starsky

So true... Whats even crazier is when they call you out when your doing the right DB things because it makes them think about what they are doing and feel the guilt and pain they are causing..