I'm now sitting here wondering if this was the right thing to do. I'm wondering if I shouldn't just have gone and spent a nice day with my family. This feels wrong right now.
I think you did the right thing, Arsene. Remember, while much is written around here about "every situation is different" and "we all have to follow our gut," let's face it -- our GUT is often what got us into our marital messes and led us to this forum to begin with.
Much, MUCH of correct DBing is counter-intuitive, and won't feel right. Starsky
