P.S. Then again, we could be wrong, too -- that's for Arsene to decide, as it should be. I liked Cutter's advice to study the forum and see who's-done-what, and what's-worked-for-whom in saving themselves and saving their marriages.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)