Into the abyss!

[Wendylon]

Hi rkyfat,

I really like the last thing you've written on your post:

My overriding feeling now is that I have to let her do this herself to give us any chance. I need to keep GAL and doing 180s

I need to do the same myself.

I'm sorry about your latest EA discovery. I can see how unsettling that would be but you seem to have bounced back really quickly and are clear about what you need to do.

Thank you for describing your S12's difficulties more. (By the way, my S is 13 and not 12. I'm amazed I got his age wrong in a previous post of mine.) There are many similarities between our sons. I'm glad your S12 has improved since changing schools. S13 is at an autism-specific school with 1 to 1 teaching but the downside is that he is surrounded by other children with severe challenging behaviours. S13 can request his favourite things but has very little understanding and also needs constant supervision. I hope you've not been having the difficulties we have with direct payments, etc..

But when I got home from work W brought it up, said she has not been sleeping well, waking up sweaty a few times a night etc but no change in her cycle.

I have the same symptoms as your W. I really don't know of a good book on the topic nor do I have a solution except to wear sports clothes to bed that wick so that I don't have to change my bedclothes in the night because of them being wet. I hope that's not too much information!

Good luck, rkyfat, and keep it up. You really sound as if you're doing good DBing.