Thanks I am not disagreeing with ur method. Ur approach seems the right one for ur sitch and I do want to get a connection. But when W is fighting to get away it is all she's interested in. Again, referring to an earlier post of sandis she is fighting for her happiness. She sees the block to that as me. She is going to have to realise that happiness comes from within and I can't control her emotions. Maybe then she will realise and if I am that light if she does come crashing down, she may turn to me and we may be able to build something new, but then again no guarantees.
My overriding feeling now is that I have to let her do this herself to give us any chance. I need to keep GAL and doing 180s.
