Hey Gunny!

My D has been final for 2 months now. I started dating about 2 months after I started the D process. Went out with a control freak, who I kept dating because I have no skills based in reality. (I am patient and forgiving of way too much crap from friends and family.)I have been working on that, much to the astonishment of a host of people who walk on me at will. I am not going out with him anymore.

On the other hand my sister got divorced many years ago, and was remarried happily within 2 years. Her 2nd H passed away a little more than a year ago. She reconnected with a high school sweetheart and is engaged. And I don't think she rushed either decision.

I say if you want to date, go for it!

Glad to hear you are living large!


Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!