SS, KG, Tori, Labug,

Thanks for dropping by. It helps to get your support. As you said, I do get a lot of great input from all parts of the spectrum and it is at times difficult to stay focused on what I have to do. Right now, I'm embracing a softer approach and IMO, this is/has been working. As long as W isn't pulling away or the situation isn't getting worse, I'm still ok to give W time and space til December. Then, I'll have to re-assess what I'm doing.

I hope to be able to find myself between now and then and perhaps get in a place where I'm not so attached to the outcome. I can feel some of it happening now but it's too soon to know and besides, I think that before reaching that point, most people sit on the fence for a bit, wavering. I don't expect to be any different.

Cheers all!


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then