The OW (WHO LIVES NEXT DOOR) I heard she just got a house to rent and she'll be moving out of her moms house shortly into a neighborhood that H and I lived years ago which was back then a "bad area" and he couldn't wait to leave it then.
My D9 and OW's D9 play together and she told my D today that OW stayed at the new house last night by herself...uh huh.
H does not ask to have the kids overnight, I offer but he always has an excuse, but yet tells everyone that I won't let him have the kids...not only would not do that I wouldn't have the authority.
I felt sick at the thought of my once beautiful, caring H being with this person who he believed to be a disgusting human being. He truley is the opposite of what he once was. He weighs about 150lbs when he was alwaysa good 195lbs he weighs less than S17 who is 6' 1" and 160lbs, when I look at him he looks different to me, his smile. his warm eyes are now cold.
This just hurts so much I want the tears to stop. Thought are needed.
M 41 H 43 M 22 S 18 S 14 D 11 Affair discovered 1/12 He filed 2/12 OW#2 7/12 she lives next door. D pending
