Thanks Sunnyburst. Yes it seems from the sitchs I have read the MLC spouse is the one who gives less in the R. And the one who is more dysfunctional. Thanks for posting. Good to know we are all in this together
AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012 Two kids, one dog D Final 6/18/14 J marries OW 1/24/15 "No matter where you go, there you are"