This stuff is hard. No getting past that. OW in my case posted photos of a ring she supposedly got from my then H. Our papers were filed, though. It doesn't really matter.

All of our spouses are going to do what they want to. We just need to stand back and let them have at it. As some wise person told me early on.

You are not garbage. You are a good person who is doing the best she can! Look in the mirror and smile and be kind to yourself.

Aloha,

Wendy

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!