Hmmmm Rough, where are you going? I thought you told your wife you were acting as a married person would act -- have you told her you're going to start dating? Where are you headed my friend, and how do you feel about it?
I don't think there's anything wrong with starting a new relationship, provided that it's fair to all concerned, and that you've brought your prior relationships to closure. As long as you and W have an understanding and this is what you want, then go for it.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015