Hello my wise friends,
So, I shouldn't set her aside for 2 minutes and ask : "I won't be offended, I just need an honest answer, is there anybody else?"

How will I know if there's an OM involved if I don't ask? Is she going to take it bad? Or not tell the truth?

Also, what do you think about this email :

Hi A,
It must be so difficult to be so busy all days with both work and school, I always admire you for being so dedicated.

Little Brucie is growing well, he’s lucky to have such a good mom as you. As a father, my priority is my family, and to rear Brucie in what I believe is the best possible education and values.
Because we’re both important in his life, it’s time for me to become actively involved with my son, and in order to make a smooth transition for him, I ask from this week on, to have him over on the week-ends, from Friday night to Sunday night. Then, when things are adjusted, we’ll extend it so he’ll stay the whole week with me every other week, which is great because I love housework and taking care of children.
This will also alleviate your schedule and I’m sure you understand how I feel. If you want to meet to discuss any details, let me know,
Take care,
B

Any suggestions? Thanks, I appreciate your support deeply. More than you know.
B


Me:34 ; W:28
Son: almost 2.
Married : 14 March 2009
DBomb : 18 June 2012
Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries)
Same country and city since July 2012