Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
M, it is normal to feel like you do. And only you know what you can take and what you can't.
The reality is what it is. But here's the thing. I believe that you are the kind of person who sees things through. And either way you can choose to come out of this a stronger, better person.
I knew that I needed to know that I had done everything I could to save my marriage. I wanted to leave no stone unturned.
Dbing gives you tools to use in all parts of life and sometimes it saves marriages.
Either way you are better for it.
So, it's ok to feel what you feel. But then let the feeling wash over you and get back on your path.
H left yesterday morning to go gambling at casinos that are 2 - 3 hours away. He bought a cell phone and took it with him. He called twice yesterday. Today nothing. I have not contacted him other than a text to tell him his mother phoned and he was to phone her back. He did not say when he would be back. I did not ask.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
