I have no idea why I asked. I guess because we seemed to be doing so well then she moved in and it went to crap. I am irritated with his lack of being able to see what is right in front of him. He does goad me for that very reason. I am going to stop engaging. I won't say that either. I think through the holidays at least I am just going to avoid him whenever I can. No asking things, no anything. That was working well for me. Allowed me to calm down.
