Sandi,

Re what I want - yes, I need some time - S will help with that.

Yes I read all the letters. He was her 1st love, she met him via fb and it went from there. No evidence of PA other than they were planning to meet. She made the contact via facebook and it appears initiated the sexual talk. Started with reminiscing and then progressed.

However, in the last message it is W saying we can at least meet up for a drink - there is no harm in that at least. But there may have been messages missing. Not sure what happened.

Her sister also told me a while back that W and this guy had bumbed into each other fairly recently.

Thanks for the hugs sandi. I do agree re her needing C