I especially love this: I am not going to live in reaction to H. He chooses to live in a dark place and I choose not too. I realized this is MY life and I get to choose how I live it.
This is so different to where you were a couple of weeks ago. Sometimes I think we have to push through a really hard bit to get to the next stage. Like mining for that prize diamond.
Can't wait for more stories like this
ME41 H39 T12 M9 Ilybinilwy 10/2010 H moves out 11/2010 H moves in 09/2011 out 11/2011 Try to fix it alone, give up 07/2012 Tumbling to file 02/01/2013 :-) "Strong on the inside, soft on the outside"