Hey Arsene, it’s been a while. This has been the longest stretch away from this site since the beginning of my sitch. I have an interesting new development. About 3 weeks ago I was out with some of my friends and I ended up meeting OW. She’s recently divorced with two grown kids. We ended up getting physical the first night I met her and I’ve seen her just about every other day since then. She’s told me from the beginning that she doesn’t want anything serious but as time goes by I can tell that “feelings” are starting to come into the picture for both of us. I doubt I would be interested in a long term relationship with her for multiple reasons. I know she’s on a dating site, a bit slutty and average looking at best. I am sure there's other reasons but that's a start. I just need to decide what I want.
I met with my IC the other day and she had a interesting perspective. She said I am at a crossroad right now because I have a choice. In essence, I can get out now before the “feelings” take over and make things more difficult. All of this has been very interesting and I am not really sure what to make of it.
