25 - the last part of your post - it hit home with me...

I don't mean to hijack here. I think like I have been in a similar space as Arsene. I do feel stuck and reading your post I realize that I do not have any visions of what my future looks like - I need to work on that.

Thanks!

Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D