KG and NG, I'm sending you both (and everyone else) a huge cyber electric hug!!! BZZZzzz LMAO! Sorry, I crack myself up :-P
NG-I hope I have grown so much. I look back at the beginning and remember how angry I was. No wonder H was so distant. I would send him nasty (really nasty) texts at 3am using every word in the book. Back in Jan he said he still cringed when he'd get a text from me.
I love how you're such a wealth of knowledge when it comes to working on our serenity! Love it!
I hope we can go bike riding at the beach once it gets warmer (75deg + for us Calis ;-)
KG-You choked me up when you said you pray for S4 n I. Reminds me when S4 was born and people would tell me this. I didn't have faith then. I was polite and said thank you. But it's different now. I have so much more faith in God and appreciate peoples prayers so much more as well.
And if your H doesn't want to talk to you, he's doing YOU the favor! Now you don't have to work so hard at NC! lol!
$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ Journaling Great great news! H n I filed our taxes back in Feb and BARELY got our check yesterday!! Turns out someone stole Hs SSN and tried filing with it so IRS was withholding our check until they verified Hs real identity. Thank GOD!
We have been so limited that strawberries were a luxury!! lol! Huge sigh of relief! But boy oh boy did it teach me to appreciate things, like GAS!
Also, my aunt is refusing to pay rent because of the argument she had with H a couple months back so that really tightened our budget even more. Plus side to this, I owe her money and she wants the rent to be deducted from that! So more tax money for us!!
Things are looking up today!
AND! MIL said she had a talk with H, SIL n BIL. She told them that she was tired of all three of them taking advantage of her. BLEW ME AWAY!! MIL is super duper passive aggressive and very very codependent! I've been telling H for years that HE needs to appreciate her more and not expect her to do things for him. I'm so glad this came from her.
Anyways, I have 3hrs to myself and I'm on the computer! lol! Still in my pjs with a super messy house. I think I'll ditch this joint and find me something to do....
LOVE YOU ALL!
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017