Heartbroken, I'm where you are. My mind tells me to give up and my heart tells me NO. The reasoning for our seperation is different, but I don't think H wants to reconcile. For me my H left Oct 3, moved out, has another place, utilities in his name and OW. I want so badly to KNOW exactly what to do, but I don't have a clue. Trying to DB and slowly I am, but there is always something that comes up that I need to text him about. Either our lawncare business, or daughter or bills, etc. We haven't actually talked since last Friday. I have contacted a lawyer, the papers drawn up and end of next week hopefully we can get them signed then sit on them till I'm ready to make the next move. Good luck on your journey.
Me: 41 H: 43 M: 21 yrs DD: 15
1st bombshell: 2002 - 6 months 2nd bombshell/moved out: 10/03/2012 OW: 10/12/2012 Signed MDA & PP: 11/20/12; but not submitting Confirmed OW living with H: 11/21/12
