Wendy you seem totally committed to make the most out of everyday. That is such a awesome energy to put out in the world.

Most days I also feel better then I ever did when I was married. Most days I am happier to be alive. Most days I have more gratitude for the blessings in my life.

Each of us has so many wonderful things to contribute to this world, we shouldn't waste our time worrying about the one person that doesn't want to see us happy.

I really related to the recap of your R post. How you own your contribution but also now realizing his contribution and his lack of any resposiblitity for his contribution.

I feel sorry most days for my H. he is giving away so much love from me and his girls


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13