Good for you Bustingout! Other's really were noticing you if they came up to you and gave you positive feedback. Nice ;-)
Also, your H seems to be more forthcoming, interesting. I remember when H started doing the same as yours back in Jan/Feb.
He also called to say he was running late. Kinda surprised me cuz he didn't give a d@mn if he was late before, not that he was. And calling to make sure we hadn't left so we could all go together. I used to think, I'd rather meet him there, but it didn't hurt to travel together. The kids loved seeing us both in the car.
S4 would say "mami, papi, mami, papi" over n over again. :-) Or he would say, "you're coming with us??!!!"
That's exactly why we do it, at least in the beginning. Then we do it for ourselves...
Take care love, many hugs to you and your little ones.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017