Sorry it took me some time to come over and welcome you back. I am glad you decided to reach out again. What you are going through now is so hard and it's no fun trying to go at it alone. I thank you for your words, and bug's - I am also going through the same stage in my journey and I am desperately trying to find a way to get out of the rut.
I also read some of my older posts and I find it hard to believe I wrote them - seems like I was also at such a different space. The reality of it all just hit so hard. Yes, it is what it is and now we have to decide what we are going to to about this FOR US.
I send you a huge hug - you know you are not alone. I wish there was an easy or fast way out of this... we know there isn't. So I am just trying to put one foot in front of the other and look up. Today is a new day and a new opportunity for us to be the best version of ourselves we can.
You are an amazing, strong, beautiful and kind woman and I am grateful to share this journey with you and learn from you and others here every day.
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Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D