Hello my friends LITB, chatterbug and others. Got a chat with the DB Coach. Basically said yes, I should ask for the toddler BUT : I have to do it as smoothly as possible, because obviously she will be sore pissed-off at me. Forget all the baby steps, I guarantee you she will be very mad and sulky.
Apart from my visits twice a week with her (almost like dates) I don’t have much more to lose, it may make things move at least, because now it’s D full steam ahead.
Also, my situation is so strange, (that my wife so fast and so intently wants a D, she refuses to meet to talk about us, refuses to go to counseling, let alone consider reconciliation) the coach suggested I asked if there was somebody else….
Frankly, I’m afraid of the answer. I’m trembling just thinking if the answer was yes… but I gotta know… What is the best way to ask this? Any ideas?
Me:34 ; W:28 Son: almost 2. Married : 14 March 2009 DBomb : 18 June 2012 Separated since Jan 2012 (different countries) Same country and city since July 2012
