Moving the blanket away from the castle

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Busting,

You were very, very brave about confronting the sitch with OW and you handled yourself with great poise and courage. You should be proud of yourself.

I know the focus now could tend to be to look back over your shoulder and see if your H is noticing...BUT you now know that it's not about that.

I realized that this is it. I am going to be happy. I am going to enjoy my life. I don’t want to be stuck in that miserable place anymore. I am not going to live in reaction to H. He chooses to live in a dark place and I choose not too. I realized this is MY life and I get to choose how I live it. It was a great feeling.

This ^^^^ is what it's about!!! This is real growth and progress. Funny because last night I was updating my thread about how I have been stuck for a long time and how much I want to get unstuck. And you are doing it! You are getting to that place, the switch is turning and you are finally tired of feeling miserable. I remember someone saying that when we reach that point, things turn around big time and I can see it happening for you.

I cannot be happier for you, my dear friend - you deserve it. Keep that attitude going!!!

(((((busting)))))))