Thanks for your ultra brand new and improved links. I have already read through them - I told you I've spent days on here! I've also read a lot of your posts, as well as those from other great veterans of the MLC battle.
I am now trying to figure out how to apply all that knowledge to where I am in my sich. H and I are talking and connecting again, but he still felt as if he needed to go try and live this other life. He may or may not still be seeing OW; if he is it's most likely casual.
I'm just not sure how to handle his upcoming trip back here to visit. It's been so nice reconnecting with him and I don't want to lose an opportunity to continue that, but I also don't want to backslide. Should I just be a friend - which would mean letting him sleep on the couch for a couple of weeks? Or should I let him continue to feel the consequences of his choices and he'll have to find somewhere else to stay? He's been very respectful of the boundaries I set the last couple of months so I know he won't challenge me whatever I decide. I'm just not sure which is the best path for either of us.
