Total Eclipse by Dan Band

[needgrace]

((((((((((((vero)))))))))

it is SO, SO difficult to have all these incredibly difficult feelings about our S and then to not mention them when they are triggered.

this is an opportunity to brush yourself off and really look at what happened in the conversation. i know that i have a big tendency to go into victim mode so i have been reading lynne forrest's stuff online about the victim triangle. i never understood before that the victim has three faces (victim ,persecutor, rescuer) so that even when i was not in the classic victim role i was still playing the victim, just in other ways.

you have grown so much vero.. so incredibly much.. don't forget to acknowledge that!

((((((((( ))))))))))))))