Interesting thread you posted. You should go read at the outcome of the posters on that thread. As I know most of those posters on this forum and in the real world.
The OP wrote this as well
I post here, because... I think too many people go into piercing too early, their spouse came back too early or they are too eager. If the LBS is too eager to please the WAS...to forgive when forgiveness isn't sought out... I dunno. My place is here.
Seems to be a theme here.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!